The Ten Commandments of Life

1. Thou shalt not let anyone get emotionally close to you. Keep your distance.
2. Thou shalt not tell the truth about how you are feeling. If you are hurt, keep it a secret.
3. Thou shalt always lie if it will keep the peace.
4. Thou shalt try and look good on the outside. It is more important anyway.
5. Thou shalt achieve highly and bring honor to the family name.
6. Thou shalt never leave and cleave, for that would make rest of the family sad.
7. Thou shalt not talk about any family matter outside the home, or any hurt that you sustain. Breaking loyalty is an abomination.
8. Children are to interfere in the parents' conflicts. They are to take the focus off the struggles the parents are having. This is a loving and acceptable sacrifice.
9. Tender feelings are an abomination.
10. Thou shalt be emotionally independent from birth.